Because of my position in the church, I get introduced in various ways.
“Meet Rev. Matthews – he’s the pastor of Kure Beach First Baptist Church.”
“This is Pastor Andrew Matthews and he’s the pastor of Kure Beach First Baptist Church.”
“This is Pastor Andrew – he’s the pastor where I go to church.”
“Meet the preacher from my church – Pastor Andrew.”
“This is Andrew, he’s my pastor.”
BUT my preferred way to be introduced is . . .
“I’d like you to meet my friend Andrew.”

There is just something about friendship and the expression of that friendship in front of other people that conveys the nature of the relationship. We are more than just associates or acquaintances, we are friends by choice.

Jesus could call us a lot of different things: His creation, sinners, servants, minions, followers, or disciples. But in John 15, Jesus calls us friends. He does this because he wants to convey the intimate nature of our relationship with him. The word friend is defined this way: “a person whom one knows and with whom one has a bond of mutual affection.” In friendship there is a mutual affection for each other. That Jesus calls us friends tells me Jesus is drawn to you, is interested in you, cares deeply about you, and is willing to be transparent with you. Are you willing to do the same? That is what makes for a good friendship – when both people are assuming that posture toward the other person. Does it feel like Jesus is your friend? Could it be you are not understanding Jesus’ relationship offer to you? Or maybe you are assuming an incorrect posture toward Jesus that is keeping the friendship from blossoming? Join me this Sunday as we look at how life in the vine offers a deep intimacy with Christ!